Can it be really that difficult to date after 40? Must I just give up dating in my own 40s?
My two closest girlfriends and I also are debating whether we really “need” a person.
We’re all inside our very early 40s. We married at 24, had a daughter, now 13, and divorced 2 yrs ago.
One other two had severe relationships, but one’s now dating a number of guys, even though the other single is taking some slack from dating.
We’re all working and capable of supporting ourselves (we place my child that is ex’s support directly into my daughter’s education investment).
Us grew in different directions for me, having been loved and married was a great experience early, but became a struggle as both of.
We skip male business and closeness often, but i will constantly get some good from my “friend with advantages” (FWB).
My scatter-dating friend claims she’s happy not to ever maintain a relationship and likes the range of males she satisfies. Additionally she likes the shopping mode of enjoying one man for their feeling of humour, another for their sexiness, etc.
Lastly, the buddy who’s given through to relationship, is significantly enjoying her life — she attends concerts and interesting lectures on her very own, and travels alone but constantly satisfies up with a selection of great individuals (different many years and genders) whom become buddies. […]